Does my story
sound like yours?
Hey! I am Mahak, an Assistant Professor and ICF-Certified Life Coach. I am not the same person I used to be. I didn’t have any idea about self-love, the law of attraction, or healing techniques. For me, life was like a straight road; no ups and downs, no taste of success and failure. There are a few incidents that happened in my life that broke me both mentally and emotionally. However, they mould me to become the best version of myself. After every incident, I become stronger and more powerful.
When I face failure, I learn a lot from it. I get to learn about who I am and who I am not. There are two important incidents that changed my life forever. I am really grateful for both the incidents because if these incidents had not happened in my life, I would not have learned anything new, I would not have changed myself, I would not have questioned life and I would not be who I am today.
Every incident that has happened, is happening or will happen has meaning to your journey. Listen to the inner voice, trust your guts and go with the flow. It will make your journey unique.
-Mahak Badkur
Chasing a girl, random bad touch in public, teasing, suppressing emotions are common issues women face. When these things happen, a girl gets emotionally hurt and it has a deep impact on her mind, which changes her behaviour. When I was a teenager, a few boys chased me and from somewhere a person clicked my photo and made a fake profile of a boy using my photo on Facebook. After that, I was shattered. This was the first incident that broke me emotionally. I am blessed that my family supported me. But still, it impacted me a lot. Unconsciously, I stopped talking to boys. And for the next five years, I went into my own shell without even realising it.
Another incident that broke me emotionally was when I failed in CA. After twenth, I decided to do CA. I cleared CA CPT in my first attempt. I quit CA, after giving three attempts of CA IPCC.
Both these incidents emotionally wrecked me. I was stressed and anxious. My self-esteem and confidence started to decrease day by day. Emotions started impacting my body. I started losing weight and became weak. And the worst thing that happened was that sometimes I started to think of committing suicide.
If you can sit with your pain, listen to your pain and respect your pain, in time you will move through your pain.
– Bryant McGil
One
Day
Moment
Incident
has the power to change you
When I joined a renowned personality development class, the environment was very different. Everyone was happy, people spoke from their heart; everyone supported each other; life was too good. I was happy from the inside. And I realize that for the past few years, I was living a life I didn’t want to. I was doing things that I didn’t want to do. I am saying things which I don’t want. I was pretending to be happy, but I wasn’t.
If you want to change your life, change your beliefs first. I started working on my beliefs. When you start changing yourself, you develop two minds. One speaks your old thoughts, while the other begins to speak new thoughts. This mental fight is worse than any physical fight. So, I was fighting a mental war.
When my mind says, “You had a very bad experience with boys,” I say, “I am safe. The world is a safe place. I started recalling good experiences. ”
When my mind says, I failed in CA. As I said, failure is a part of life. When my mind says, as if you are a girl, you should suppress your feelings, I say, Yes, I am a girl, and I allow myself to express what I feel.
When my mind said, “I’m afraid.” I said, “Everything you do creates fear. However, courage does not allow fear to stop you. “
Acknowledge, Accept and Express your feelings. It is important for your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual growth.
– Mahak Badkur
As I change my thoughts, the world around me changes. I attracted good people in my life. Things started happening easily and effortlessly in my life.
I aspired to become a teacher so that I could change the lives of many people. It is easy to change people at a young age because they don’t have strong beliefs. They are in the learning phase. The stronger the belief, the more difficult it is to change the person. As I started teaching, I realized there are some limitations as a teacher, so I can’t help students in all aspects of life.
I wanted some better ways to change the lives of people, and I was reading a book and learned about “life coaching.” And I said, “This is what I want to become,” and I joined the Life Coach Certification program.
I always want to change people, but I realized I can’t change anyone, I can only support them.
“The only person who can change your life is YOU. No one else can do that for you. ”
So I am here to support you in your transformation journey.
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